There are 4 steps to practising mindfulness meditation. They’re neither easy nor hard. They just are simple things that connect you to the present environment. You’ve to realize that your mind and your body are one. And in order to realize that, you practice mindfulness.
Once you meditate you’ll realise that it isn’t easy. You get distracted. Your mind is a kid and it loves going around and moving around, looking at different things and floating through streams of thoughts at the same time. So, relaxing it can be a little difficult at first. But it isn’t impossible. It took me 2 weeks to get the hang of it. Some people can do it in 2 days and for some it can take 2 months. So there’s no specific time period during which it’s definite that you’ll learn how to practice mindfulness meditation.
Breathe. In the first step, all you’ve to do is breathe in and breathe out. Focus on your breath and try keeping your focus on that. It’ll be tough at first because, like I said, our mind wanders. When you realize that your mind is wandering, just bring it back to the breathing. Don’t curse yourself or your mind for not being able to focus. It’s okay if the mind wants to play around a little. But once you notice it, just gently tell your mind to come back to your breathing.
If the breathing isn’t rhythmic, it’s okay. Do not force yourself to breathe deeply or to take heavy breaths. No. Just breathe and let try focusing on the fact that you’re breathing. Try saying it in your head “I’m breathing in.. I’m breathing out.”This is the first step.
The second step is to focus on your posture. Feel how your body touches other surfaces and mentally note them. The purpose is to come back to the present. To feel your body and to recognise your existence. Let your body free while doing this. Don’t choose a stiff position. Relax a little and then start.
Let’s say you’re in your bed and on your back. Notice how your butt is touching the bed. How your back is a little warm because of the continuous contact with the bed. Notice how your feet touch each other and how your calves rest on the bed. Then notice the weight. How your body’s weight is divided. How the elbows feel a little heavy and how your hands rest on your tummy. Feel the weight in your little fingers.
This step isn’t really that hard and helps you appreciate your body, your weight, things that we choose to ignore on the daily.If you’re in a windy place, you can also bring your attention to how the wind touches your skin.
Let’s try these two steps first. If I mention the next two steps, you will try doing them as well and it gets really jumbled up and leads to no good. I know this because I did this for my first entire week.
Please know this. Meditation doesn’t mean getting high and getting away from the world. It isn’t flying in the air and all the stuff that people have turned it into. It’s the opposite of that. It’s bringing your mind back to your body and focusing on your present. It’s about living in the now.
Please let me know how your experience was if you try the first two steps.
Written By: Muskan Pradhan































